if a third person comments on ur beauty it's a different isuue.what if your own family comments rudely on you?i have been told by my family tat iam not pretty,not fair and so on.i really don't know what to do.especially my inlaws are like"we wanted a very beautiful and fair daughter in law...well..ur not all that".whether iam pretty or not...iam tired of hearing this...what do i do?
Family 's "comments" on my beauty.....?
dont listen to them! if you think your beautiful then who cares about what ur inlaws think there not going to marry you are they ! if u feel beautiful in the inside you are on the outside..if your really feeling annoyyed and upset then stand up for yourself! dont take crap from anyone cause at the end of the day you are who you are . jsut because they want a ' fair ' look doesnt mean its the only look! speak the truth and how you feel..
good luck hun
Family 's "comments" on my beauty.....?
wtf. can you post a picture so we can see what their problem is?
Family 's "comments" on my beauty.....?
First, and I think you know, it's far more important to be pretty on the inside than the outside. This totally doesn't mean that you're not pretty. What it means is that they have nothing else to harp on with you so they've chosen this one small thing that they think will make you feel bad and consequently themselves feel better about who they are. It's not that they're unhappy with you, they're unhappy with themselves.
You're not going to change that they do this. What you can do is realize - it's not about you. Don't react really. If your in-law says it again just say something like, "I love your son more than anyone else would so I think he got a pretty good deal" and just let it go. Feel for them that this is the only way they can make themselves feel happy.
Good luck.
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